Christmas is here again

Well just a few more weeks of school for the girls before Christmas break. Mia has this week at MDO and Lily has until the 18th. They've written their letters to Santa and gotten replies (God bless our mail-lady). The tree is up and the decorations are done. I'm actually thankful we wont be putting them back in the attic this year but donating them. We're busy trying to thin out what won't fit into 1100 sq feet in DC, which is alot. So if anyone needs a couch or chair or elliptical or ...well just message me what you need and I'll tell you if we have it to give away. Ha.

No word from BG. I am sure every pre-adoptive parent dreads this time of year. You can't help but think a child should be home with their family for Christmas. Not stuck in some orphanage wishing for a family for Christmas. I guess Santa can't deliver everything. 

Pray for those children who wish for families and don't get them. I can imagine after awhile hope seems meaningless for them. Particularly the older ones. They remember it more. 

Christmas is a double-edged sword for me. It's supposedly the "most wonderful time of the year,"... according to Andy Williams. But without those people you love it always hurts just as much as it pleases. The colors aren't quite as bright. The music isn't quite as heartwarming. The food isn't nearly as  good. The weather isn't quite as cold. OK, that last one is a joke. It's never cold here. 

But I think anyone who's lost someone important to them feels the same way. It's just not quite Christmas ever again. 

But still we go through the motions and little by little begin to regain a tiny bit, albeit minuscule, of that Christmas spirit. 

My Christmas wish is that those who still have the ones you love stop and consider what life would be like without that person. I don't care if you don't get on well or you fight every time you're in the same room. Just remember they're there. Never forget that and be appreciative of what you have. Life is never that same after they're gone. God Bless and Happy Christmas. 

Futbal...in pictures

"I don't want to pway soccur"- Mia

After the meltdown...

Daddy makes it better

"This is awesome mom, I love it!" - Lily

I am not moving from my daddy

Sissy got me on the field

But I refused to let go of her hand

Don't make me go back in there

Yes, Yes, I believe soccer is a spectator sport. The view is much better from up here.

San Francisco

We had a great trip to San Francisco! Fabulous weather and good friends makes a trip worthwhile, even if Delta is an absolute pain to fly with.

Don't 
Expect
Luggage 
To
Arrive 

So the story goes, they made me check my carry-on luggage in Memphis when I got to the gate because of "lack of overhead space". I asked if they were storing it beneath the plane and handing it back at the gate. Nope. Of course not. They were sending it on to my final destination...SFO. I explained to them that I had a 5 hour layover in Atlanta, to no avail. The poor guy after me had an 11 hour layover on his way to Germany. Nope, they didn't let him keep his either. Poor guy. I'm not sure who gave them more of an ear full. It's a toss-up between us. Luckily J was able to keep her carry-on so I could borrow something if need be. 
I did get my luggage when I got to SF. I was exceedingly surprised since the last 3 trips I've taken with D.E.L.T.A they've lost my luggage.

Golden Gate Bridge. So the GGB Story goes like this. Never Ever Ever try to bike from the Presidio all the way to Sausalito with the expectation that A) A beginner can do it, B) that you will be able to bike back, and C) that you will not be terrified while doing A and B. 

P and S took us to Sonoma Valley for the beautiful scenery and the wonderful wine. Mainly the wine.  

Sausalito. Cute little town. Wouldn't want to live here in an earthquake, but cute little town. Drive here, don't bike. Replace brake pads before going.

Magners: The Irish Cider of the Gods ;) J and I have started a tradition. Every time we go on a trip we have to make at least 1 stop at an Irish pub. It's never an inconvenience I can tell you that.

Cutest little house. P and S did a great job fixing it up. Apparently it was just a shell when they bought it.  

The view of Alcatraz and the Wharf from Coit Tower. 

O'Reilly's Irish Pub. Notice we're not the only ones at a pub at 2 in the afternoon.  

"Erin Go Bragh"

J and Me at O'Reilly's Irish Pub

Coit Tower. It is unfortunate that the only way to the top is by elevator. It was built in the early 1900s and it smells like it. 

The Presidio grounds. I fell bad for those men that got stationed in Biloxi, MS when they could have gone here. 

P and Little T at lunch. The best baby ever. I told G if I could be guaranteed to have one just like him I would have another.

Vegan Mexican. Yes Yes, I know what you're thinking about the black beans. It was actually delicious. 

St. Paul's: Where the movie "Sister Act" was filmed.
A bit of movie trivia: The church is actually in a very nice part of town. They made it look like it was in a bad part of town for the movie. 

Breakfast at "Toast" with J. This is the first joint I've been to that gets the whole "must drink coffee in huge cups" thing. 

Xander and T watching us leave the last day :( This is both precious and terribly sad. 

Giant Roses. Not sure what they put in their soil but the flowers and produce are huge. 

Garden in Sonoma. You learn something new everyday. Roses are planted around grape vines to act as a warning signal when bugs or disease strike. Both plights will affect the roses first and show signs which give the owner time to save the grape vine. 

Sonoma Valley 

Gorgeous 

View from Alcatraz. 

Old Washer

Me at Alcatraz

Alcatraz from our Ferry from Sausalito to Ferry Marketplace

Biking from Presidio to Sausalito. Our little baskets were lifesavers.

The Warden's House on Alcatraz, or what's left of it. There were only 3 or 4 wardens the whole time Alcatraz was open.  

"Stairs to Nowhere" Alcatraz. No one knew what it was for. I asked.

My momma's favorite color. The yellow roses were huge and gorgeous.

The Roundup

So Lily has gone back to school. After her school closed last semester and moved all the kids to this campus we were less than thrilled because it meant an additional 20 minute drive for us - both ways - in traffic. Lily, however, was more distraught because her class was being divided up and paired with the other 1st grade class to make 2 classes. She has one girlfriend in her class from last year, as well as 4 boys. She also has a little friend from church in her class. She seems to like it so far, though she is less than enthused about the actual schoolwork. It took her about an hour to do 10 minutes of "homework" yesterday because she complained and whined the whole time. I hate whining.

But before we started back to school we were lucky to get a visit for our cousin, (my mother's sister's daughter) Cheli. It's been a good while since we've seen her and the girls were ecstatic!

Here are some shots from the first day of school. 

Saturday was the first soccer practice for the girls. Our church has a young league that doesn't keep score and teaches them the basics.  Normally they wouldn't be on the same team since Mia is 4 and Lily is 6 but they didn't have enough kids sign up to justify a 1st and 2nd grade team, so of course Lily and one other little boy are the biggest kids on the team. That's fine. Muscle power. 

We can't find soccer socks small enough for Mia so she may just have to wear shinguards and short socks. Poor thing. Even her uniform is huge and it was the smallest size they offer. She swims in it. 

They really can be sweet sisters when they want to. :)

Ahhh, Girls. 

This was Lily's "warm outfit" the day it dropped below 85 degrees.  I suggested she went a bit overboard but she assumed me that was not the case. 

Here are some horseback riding pictures from her time at camp. They're a bit scrappy because they were actual hard copies that Garry scanned into the computer. She had her first real lesson yesterday so hopefully I will remember to bring the camera next week. iPhones don't produce the best quality photos for blogs I'm discovering.

Lily and her pony Pumpkin

She loved riding. 

The smallest one, both on the horse and off.



I'm headed to San Fran on Friday and Garry's mom will be flying in tomorrow for a visit (and to help Garry while I'm gone because we all know men are helpless when it comes to childcare.

No news on BG. The are shut down in August I think (one of their many holidays)  so I don't expect to hear anything for a while.